I remember a time when the word depression was only whispered, if at all regarded. When someone said they were stressed or overwhelmed, the response was often a shrug, a “you’ll get over it,” or worse, “stop being dramatic.”
Mental health wasn’t something we talked about seriously. It was treated like a bad mood you could pray away, sleep off, or bury under the weight of “toughening up.”
Growing up, I saw how the burden of pretending to be okay affected people around me, friends, family, and even myself. We were all trying to stay afloat in a world that demanded performance over presence, productivity over peace.
But now, slowly, things are shifting.
It’s World Mental Health Month, and I can’t help but reflect on how far we’ve come, as individuals and as a country.
One of the most symbolic moments this year was the Kenyan High Court’s ruling to decriminalize attempted suicide
Let that sink in: we were punishing people for being in pain. The ruling didn’t just change a law, it challenged a deeply ingrained mindset. A mindset that saw mental illness as weakness or sin.
This decision was more than legal reform it was validation. That people who are hurting deserve help, not handcuffs.
In the past few years, the Kenyan government has taken meaningful steps to prioritize mental wellness:
- The Mental Health Action Plan (2021–2025) seeks to integrate mental health care into all county hospitals and primary health centers, so that you don’t have to travel miles or pay thousands to speak to someone trained to help.
- The Suicide Prevention Strategy (2021–2026) aims to reduce suicide rates by 10% by improving public education and establishing better support systems.
- The Mental Health (Amendment) Act, 2022 expanded definitions of mental illness and required insurance companies to include mental health care in their coverage.

And one of the most promising steps?
Recognizing the toll that toxic workplaces can have on mental well-being, the Ministry of Health launched National Guidelines on Workplace Mental Wellness in 2023.
These guidelines are a breath of fresh air. They emphasize supportive work cultures, self-care, and employee access to mental health resources. It’s a big deal in a country where people have quietly suffered through burnout, unrealistic expectations, and the silent shame of not coping.
For all the beautiful policy language, the reality on the ground still hits hard:
- Underfunding: Mental health receives only 0.01% of Kenya’s health budget, far below global standards.
- Workforce shortages: There are just over 100 psychiatrists in the whole country. Rural areas, especially, are left behind.
- Stigma: This is the biggest silent killer. People are still afraid to say they’re not okay, for fear of being seen as weak or unstable. That silence is dangerous.
Thankfully, while systems slowly catch up, people and communities are stepping in.
- Basic Needs Kenya has been doing the groundwork, running community-based mental health programs, training leaders, and offering local support.
- Public awareness campaigns are challenging outdated narratives and making mental health part of everyday conversations.
- Social media, for all its chaos, is also home to brave voices normalizing therapy, healing, and openness.
Even churches and chamas are starting to lean into this shift, making room for prayer and professional help.
This isn’t just policy talk to me, it’s personal.
I’ve seen people I love sink quietly into depression while smiling in public. I’ve had to check in with myself on days when anxiety tried to disguise itself as “just being tired.” I’ve witnessed how powerful it can be when someone says, “I’m not okay” and is met with kindness, not shame.
“It’s okay not to be okay.” Maya Angelou
As we observe World Mental Health Month, it’s clear we’ve made strides, but we’re not done yet.
We need more funding, more trained professionals, and more conversations. We need our leaders, institutions, and communities to prioritize mental health, not just during awareness months but every single day.
“What mental health needs is more sunlight, more candor, and more unashamed conversation.”
Glenn Close
My hope? That we continue to break the silence. That we raise a generation that knows it’s okay to ask for help. That we create a Kenya where mental health is not just a footnote, but a foundation.
Let’s keep going. Let’s keep showing up.
One honest conversation at a time.


