Some people walk into rooms and simply exist, as if that alone is enough. They don’t rehearse their worth. They don’t negotiate their presence. They just sit there, fully convinced they belong.
But some of us, every opportunity feels like a test. Every relationship feels like an assignment. And somewhere in the back of our minds, there’s always that question: “Did I actually earn this, or did I just slip through by mistake?”
Because growing up, worth wasn’t something you had, it was something you proved. Over and over again. Preferably with results. Good ones.
So now, even in rooms we fought to enter, we hesitate. Not because we don’t belong, but because no one ever taught us that belonging didn’t need to be earned in the first place.
Learn how to start, book, and afford virtual mental health support for you or your child in Kenya. Simple steps, trusted therapists, and flexible payments.
Things to know about therapy before you begin. Learn what therapy really is, what to expect, and how Convo e-Therapy offers a safe, accessible space to talk without judgement.
You’re such a Leo.”
We’ve all heard it—or said it. In a world where astrology shapes identities and filters love lives, Sharon Nyambura questions whether we’re truly living out our zodiac traits… or just performing them. Blending personal stories with psychology, she challenges us to ask: Are we becoming who the stars say we are, or hiding behind them to avoid doing the work of growth?
Some people walk into rooms and simply exist, as if that alone is enough. They don’t rehearse their worth. They don’t negotiate their presence. They just sit there, fully convinced they belong.
But some of us, every opportunity feels like a test. Every relationship feels like an assignment. And somewhere in the back of our minds, there’s always that question: “Did I actually earn this, or did I just slip through by mistake?”
Because growing up, worth wasn’t something you had, it was something you proved. Over and over again. Preferably with results. Good ones.
So now, even in rooms we fought to enter, we hesitate. Not because we don’t belong, but because no one ever taught us that belonging didn’t need to be earned in the first place.
Learn how to start, book, and afford virtual mental health support for you or your child in Kenya. Simple steps, trusted therapists, and flexible payments.
Things to know about therapy before you begin. Learn what therapy really is, what to expect, and how Convo e-Therapy offers a safe, accessible space to talk without judgement.
You’re such a Leo.”
We’ve all heard it—or said it. In a world where astrology shapes identities and filters love lives, Sharon Nyambura questions whether we’re truly living out our zodiac traits… or just performing them. Blending personal stories with psychology, she challenges us to ask: Are we becoming who the stars say we are, or hiding behind them to avoid doing the work of growth?
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